Sunday, October 31, 2010

The Great Pumpkin!

Carving is always worth the mess. Kaden was happy to have is own pumpkin but wasn't too happy what he found inside.

Brookie made cute 5 Little Pumpkin puppets at school.  This is just one of the times she performed for the family.  She was very sweet to let Kaden participate!

Some how they convinced Kaden to push them around like this.
Kaden was real happy to do it!

We had a fun wedding celebration to attend in Halloween costumes. So fun!

Getting ready for trunk of treat with some friends.
The kids were in heaven!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Daddy's 3_?


We were going to be camping the night before Dad's b-day but the weather in Doheny and Kaden's asthma attacks wasn't permitting us to go camping. So we had our friends over, watched Karate Kid, baked our tin foil dinners in the oven and roasted the marshmallows right on the stove.

When we all woke up on Daddy's b-day, the kids were waiting for something special to happen.  Dad treated them with his favorite Entenmann's chocolate-chocolate doughnuts. I though we needed something healthy so I cut up some fruit and arranged it just so that I could put a candle in the middle. The kids loved singing to Daddy at breakfast!

We went on a family bike ride to the park.  We were all happy as can be!

We topped off the day at an awesome Halloween Party at Phil and Pam's.


On Sunday we celebrated with family and with a real cake.

-Daddy's Awesome!-

I love you hunny!

Friday, October 22, 2010

Our Seizures


Febrile Seizures - a convulsion in young children caused by a sudden spike in body temperature, often from an infection. During a febrile seizure, a child often loses consciousness and shakes, moving limbs on both sides of the body and convulses. Less commonly, the child becomes rigid or has twitches in only a portion of the body, such as an arm or a leg, or on the right or the left side only.

I've felt prompted more than once to share some info. about fever induced seizures...

Way back when Tanner was 13 months old he had a low fever from teething and had his first of many febrile seizures. Being a new mom and all, I hadn't heard of a child having seizures from a fever so I REALLY THOUGH MY TANNER WAS DYING OR HAVING SOME PERMANENT BRAIN DAMAGE. After the paramedics arrived I was RELIEVED to hear that most likely it was a fever induced seizure and to not worry about my baby any more. We were transported to the E.R. and the Dr's confirmed that as long as Tanner had a rise in body temperature, than I shouldn't worry, that that is what INDUCED his seizure.

The pediatric Dr's said that I can't prevent his seizures from occurring. I said well when he has a fever can't I give him Tylenol and Motrin back to back till he appears to be well again? The Dr's probably think I'm crazy but they aren't the ones that have held their son repeatedly during a seizure when he's unconscious, seizing and there's nothing you can do to stop it!

We thought Tanner had grown out of this phase but unfortunately he had his 6th seizure in August of this year. Poor Brookie was right there and asked if Tanner was dying. We met with a neurologist last month and he said that it's not out of the norm for it to still occur up until pre-adolescence. I have to say that through the awesome power of the priesthood, Tanner has been watched over and protected. I have been with him each and every time he's had a seizure. Since Tanner's been able to get out of bed by himself, he has walked to my bedside every time he's had a fever in the middle of the night for the past 4 years. Often Tanner will say he feels fine but he still woke up and came to my bed side. I know angels are watching over him and protecting him and me I might add!

I'm sharing this for EVERYONE TO BE AWARE of this condition or those of you that haven't shared Tanner's story, please spread the word.  If I would have only known before our first seizure, life that day would have been a lot different.

Febrile Seizures are genetic. Thankfully Brookie and Kaden haven't had any seizures. The neurologist said that most likely they are in the clear. It will just be a waiting game for our new little addition next year! One of my nephews on my side of the family has had two seizures and one of my nephews on Sean's side of the family has had one seizure. Thankfully their Mom's knew why the seizures were occurring, but it's still not easy.

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Autumn, the year's last, loveliest smile.

-William Cullen Bryant
The kids always count down the days till we get to go to the pumpkin patch.



Lil'tractor rides is their favorite activity at the patch.

Lyn has so much love to give, she even hugs the fake scare crows.

The kids were thrilled their buddies Jackson and Reagan met us there.

It was all fun and games until Kaden came down the slide to soon after Brookie and hit her back.

It will be a while before he goes on one of those slides again.  He kept glaring at it.

So while Tan and Brookie played their hearts out we took these pics.

Friday, October 15, 2010

Half Time!

Here I'm 20 weeks prego.
I know it's not the best tummy shot but Sean isn't the most patient photographer.  He's all about Snap and Go. Sean and I are so happy that I'm half way through my sickness!  I am even more happy that our little guy is growing and kicking to remind me that being sick is all worth the sacrifices to bring him into our family. Only 18.5 weeks to go... but who's counting!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Simple Joys

Usually Kaden is the culprit to earn time outs throughout the day.  Recently when Tanner climbed on the counter, I sent him to time out.  I had warned Tan and Brookie that I'm not going to tolerate climbing on the counter because Mr. Kadster loves to do the same.  I don't want to help Kadster get stitches! So as soon as Tan sat in time out...Kaden runs over to him, hugs him and says.. "I time out!".  No Kaden you aren't in trouble Tanner is... come here. "No I time out with Tanner!" Of course Tanner's heart melted. Kadster has continued to console Tan and Sissy when they are in trouble.

One night while laying in bed with Tanner he asked, “Mom why and how does our body make pee, pooh, and diarrhea?  So I tried to explain that it is waste, things that our body gets rid of and doesn't need.  He asked but why does it smell so bad?  Well if it didn't smell we wouldn't know when to change Kaden's diaper right?  I said we will talk about it another day and read our book, "The inside your outside." I still haven't read it yet but, it's an awesome book that explains complicated body systems in a simple way.

During nap time I asked Mr. Kaden if he was ready to go to sleep? He quickly grabbed the toy vacuum and said, “NO!! I'm vacuuming!” He was trying to pull a fast one on me.

I actually baked for the first time in 4 months. I tried to plan it around Kaden's nap because he likes to help a little too much.  So he woke up right while the kids and I were decorating brownies.  Kaden slid the stool over quickly and grabbed some chocolate off a brownie.  I said, "Kaden, please don't touch, we are sharing these with our friends.  He grabbed the second and said "Yummy Chocate" as he was smiling and shaking his head.  I told him that he was going to have a time out for not listening. He said, "No, I eat chocate!  I'm cooking!  It's so hard to act serious when he's so funny.

Recently Brookie had a fever during the night. I told her when she woke up to stay away from her brothers. She looked at me with such a sad face and asked, " So I can't cuddle my brothers ALL day? I can't touch my brothers?" tears in eyes... "I can't touch you Tanner and I can't touch Kaden or baby Colby". She's so sweet with her brothers. At the end of sick day #1, Tanner came in my room and asked how much longer Brookie was going to be sick. I asked if he was worried he was going to get sick. He said, "I'm not worried about myself, I just want Brookie to get better. It breaks my heart when she doesn't feel good." I'm so grateful for the love they share!

Tanner continues to write me love notes and draw Dad and I cool pictures.  He recently drew a picture of a big bright yellow sun with a huge smile.  He put it in my bathroom window so I can see it through my slightly open blinds.  I hope he forever stays thoughtful.

Brookie came and sat on my lap, showed me her fingers and said, “I have very intelligent fingers.” I told her how glad I am that her fingers are so smart.

A friend of mine was over visiting. She tried to talk to Kaden. He covered his eyes and whispered, “I shy.” I guess I've told people one to many times that he's a shy boy.

The kids get to attend my monthly Dr. appointments. They get so excited to hear our baby's heartbeat. Every couple days Brookie lays her head on my growing tummy and says, “I want to hear his beep beep.” I tell her that the beat she hears is mine but she doesn't listen. Brookie-lyn also asks how many more days till her Baby comes out and then says, “I can't wait to take care of him!”

Unfortunately, all three of our kids have nightmares.  And usually not the same night.  So it's rare that we get to sleep straight through the night.  I think the kids are just getting me ready for their little brother to arrive. We knew Kaden was really having nightmares when last month he started waking up screaming and when we'd enter his room he'd say, “I scared!!, I scared!! Hold me!!"
I cherish the times my kids run to me for comfort after getting an owie.
I cherish the moments the kids sneak back into our room to give us one more kiss and hug.
They are growing like weeds, way too fast! I love you my sweet pieces from heaven!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Tanner Cares



Last year Tanner made a commitment to participate in the Eastvale Cares Walk/Run each year.
It's awesome! All the proceeds go to the local schools.

I was so happy that Dad was happy to run along side of Tanner and cheer him on!
Brookie gets to run with the clan next year. We decided 5 was a good age to start.

The buddies!

I just loved watching them run together.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

More than just cupcakes...

In remembrance of sweet Caitlyn Jolley's!
She would have turned two this week...

The kids loved being a part of this special day.


Caitlyn's parents started this awesome tradition of having friends and family make cupcakes, celebrate and become an organ donor.

Miss you Caitlyn
xoxox

(These are the pictures we sent them.)

Monday, October 4, 2010

Mommy's Model









Our Brookie Love knows how to move, groove and strut her stuff!
It's hard to believe she's already 4. She asks often how much longer till she starts kinder.
She's so ready, and I'm not.
xoxox